Welcome to Handfastings and Weddings!

Wiccan Wedding Minister

CONGRATULATIONS! You are getting married and want a ceremony fit for a Queen!

I will help you design your ceremony for just you! It is YOUR day, so I will make sure it is done with YOU in mind. I will send you samples of wedding/handfasting ceremonies and you can add to them, subtract what you don’t want and make it completely YOUR ceremony.

My name is Rev Debra S Lippitt and I am a legally ordained minister of a non-denominational service. I was ordained by Temple of Eternal Light, in Brooklyn, NY in 1996 and I have been operating my own Temple since 1997. My Temple of Gaia Incorporated is a legal 501c3 non profit organization and is operated in our home in Collingdale (Delaware County), PA.

We specialize in Handfastings, Weddings, Civil Ceremonies, Renewal of Vows, Handpartings, Non-Denominational Ceremonies, Non-Religious Ceremonies, Commitment Ceremonies, and other services, such as Baby Naming, Rites of Passage, House Blessings, to name a few.


There are many fees involved with a typical wedding and much has to do with the type and size of the ceremony. Anything that involves having someone do something for you usually involves a fee. Things like having commercial flowers, performing musicians, and special dresses or costumes involve paying someone to do something. To keep costs down, keep your ceremony simple and ask friends to volunteer their help. Some fees, like having an officiant to run the service, will be unavoidable.

The following are the fees that I charge to be an officiant:

Base Charge:

$100 is the designated beginning donation.

Base Charge includes:

  •     2 planning meetings, if desired. (compensation for travel must be given if traveling).
  •     Leading or assisting in a wedding or handfasting service.
  •     Signing of the wedding license.


$1 per mile for traveling from Collingdale, PA., if the distance is longer than 60 miles.